Convert the pressure to the power

It’s difficult to make everybody satisfied if you are not a customer service. Even though you are having long patience in job, sometime you get depress and worry for getting many task from your manager. It’s normal and fine as long as you can do it. When you cannot do it, You happiness is gone and your life became unhealthy. To resist every kind of pressure, you rather convert it to the power. For example, when you get the task which is very much, from your managers, explain them that you cannot do it a lot. But if you are […]

Know your value when salary negotiation in interview

I have many friends who don’t feel satisfied for their recent job interview, especially for salary negotiation. They got few pay because they failed in negotiation. It means the art of negotiation is very important in life, especially in salary case in interview. In negotiation, whatever they are persuading you to reduce your price for job position, never ever let them do it. Before you sit for it, make sure you know how much you are expensive. Decide a price in your mind in a range of the smallest and biggest price and then go for interview. Don’t get greedy […]

Meritorious actions to perform in life

To have a peaceful and happy life, Buddha taught as to perform ten bases of meritorious action daily which are as followings. 1. Dana = Charity2. Sila    = morality3. Bhavana = meditation4. Apacayana = giving due respect to others5. Veyyavacca = rendering service and assistance6. Pattidana = sharing merits7. Pattanunodana = rejoicing at and appreciation8. Dhammassavana = listening to the Dhamma, teaching of Buddha9. Dhammadesana = teaching Dhamma to others10. Ditthijukamma = right belief These good deeds are meritorious deeds not only when you actually do them, but also when you make other perform good deeds, when you explain the […]

Young people are slaves of sensual pleasures

Some young people of today became slaves of sensual pleasures which ruin their future. They want to succeed in life, to be wealthy, to be appraised and to be famous. But they didn’t accomplish their destination due to many obstacles in which sensual pleasures include. They would feel bored to work overtime, but active the whole night in club, bored to attend parents but having a lot of time and money for love, busy to go monastery, but easy to hang out with friends,and find difficult to learn teaching of Buddha, Dhamma, but happy to sing music in karaoke, hard […]

The prediction of a venerable monk for future of the world

The venerable monk, Ashin Janakabhivamsa, wrote a book named Abhidhamma in daily life, one of the teaching of Buddha, and published in 1930. There he predicted the world’s condition in the future. I feel wonder to see that his prediction is definitely true and same like the current condition of the world. Let me share his words. “In future the younger generation will no more be fortunate enough to inherit wealth from their parents. Nowadays parents have to struggle hard even to afford education of their children. Novel commodities in the form of diverse consumer goods are abound in the […]

Why depression arise and how to recover?

In teaching if Buddha, depression is involved under the wholesome mental factors. hatred in which sorrow, grief, depression, anger and grudge include. It is not only violet but also soils the mind. Depression mostly soils the mind. Why we got depressionThe following are the most resonance facts why one get depression 1. Lack of wealth, requisites, etc.,2. Not having followers3. Being blamed4. Suffering They are the downs of life, said by Buddha. Lack of wealth We, all human beings want a life full of requisites and many want full of luxury. When one see other people getting it and living […]

Don’t get sorrow,as it is a perfection

Many people today feel sorrow for many kind of reasons and problems such as losing parents, relatives, losing jobs and so on. Sorrow indeed is an unwholesome mental fact of suffering, as taught by Buddha. Hatred will appear in consequence. They endanger the mind and are painful forces and influence; one in no way gains anything from these. They burn the heart and harm the mind without yielding a single benefit. Therefore a wise person should avoid it. There is a story, as taught by Buddha, which is about Malika, the wife of General Bandula who serve for the King […]

Young people are having false shame and fear

As taught by Buddha, we should have two wholesome mental factors. moral fear and moral shame. Moral fear is fear to do evil and moral shame, ashamed to do evil. The book Abhidhamma in daily life say, “without that two factors, mankind will sink into evil depths, and be reduced to the state of animals. Voiding of moral shame and moral dread make people dress, ear and behave in not decent way. If it continued, the world will soon end in complete ruin and mankind will turn into animals. However, the bad news is that young people of today false […]

Don’t let your opportunity go away

Though Young people always want good opportunities to develop themselves, they neglect it sometime when they get it. After it, they feel remorse. The root problem is that they cannot clarify whether it is opportunity or not. For example, when one get a project or a task from top people, one regard it as a pressure and don’t want to challenge it. By thinking positive point of view the bigger the problem or task, the bigger the challenge, then the bigger is the opportunity. If one lost it, there would be no second chance. So we should not let our […]

Repay your debts in any condition

There is a story, said by Buddha to suggest human beings to repay all kind of debts. Let me share you. In a certain town there once was a lad who worked hard as a common labourer and look after his widowed mother. His mother was immoral and was having affair secretly. His friend who knew about it felt pity for the lad and disclosed the affair to him. However, he said, “Let my mother be happy; what ever she does, I shall attend to her.” In the story, the immorality of his mother is her own burden. The work […]