Many of my friends are afraid of making mistake in their job and career. For having such kind of mental condition, they don’t take risk and challenge in their life. They don’t get promoted in their life too. It is clear that everyone should be brave to take challenge without getting afraid of making mistake.
As some did lots of errors in their tasks, they never want to take the tasks and get out of the trip to success. Some people don’t feel afraid of making mistake. But after always making mistake, they insult themselves and have the feeling of depression. They told themselves ‘I am bad. I am a b****. I am nothing. I am dumb. I am ass****’. The mistake is the lesson what we need to learn. First we make mistake. May be it is accident. If the mistake happened again, it is because of your careless. If the mistake happened again and again for life time, it is your choice and habit. It is the feeling of getting afraid of people blamed on you. You are not feeling afraid for you can or cannot do. But you are feeling for people blamed on you or not. Till you are afraid of people’s blaming and desiring people’s appraising, you will still be under people’s control. You are not controlling yourself then.
Human make mistake. But the mistake is not for us to feel remorse and regret for so long. It is the lessons that we need to learn. If we feel it, we never get something perfect for current time. As you are still having feeling of being afraid and regret, you cannot keep full focus on current things. Then you lost again. Have you ever experienced like it? You can see people around you those who fail again and again in life, as they keep on feeling regret and remorse since first mistakes. And they didn’t learn from mistakes. If you don’t feel it and just note the fact after happened, it is very useful for your life. You can apply it. You cannot change the past, but you change the future. You don’t need to get afraid of making mistake, but you need to of doing nothing.
Author: Aung Kham
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